Have you ever sent an embarrassing message to the wrong person? This time, a woman accidentally trash-talked her best friend to her face.

She and her best friend, who had been close since high school, were hanging out one Friday night. After going to bed, her friend texted her a complaint about her, thinking she was texting her boyfriend. The message, which criticized her for not being “fun anymore” and said they’d “grown apart,” was a shock. The woman packed up and left, and the next morning, her friend apologized, saying she was drunk.

Heartbroken, she now fears spending her 21st birthday alone. Reddit users offered support, advising her to move on from the friendship and focus on finding new, more supportive friends.