We were off to Bali for our anniversary. That morning, my husband said we had to bring his 5 y.o. son with us because his ex’s parents were in a car crash. I said, “This is supposed to be romantic-I won’t be babysitting.” We fought, so I went alone.

While there, I was scrolling Facebook. Suddenly, I froze when I saw my husband with his ex-wife in a photo, smiling and having dinner at our favorite restaurant-the place where he proposed to me. The photo was posted just 20 minutes ago. Furious, I called him and asked, “I thought your ex was devastated and in the hospital. Are you two on a romantic date?”

He claimed he took her and son there because they hadn’t eaten all day and he wanted to lighten the mood. But I didn’t see the kid in the photo. I told him I didn’t believe him and hung up. Now, as I return from Bali, I feel lost and confused. What was meant to be a romantic trip turned into a nightmare, and I’m unsure if my husband and his ex are secretly having an affair.

What should I do?
Carly