I’m getting married in my dad’s backyard and banned my stepmom because my mom dislikes her. She yelled, “Are you throwing me out of my own house?” I said, “It’s MY dad’s house, and you’re just living in it!”

On the day, she wasn’t there, and I thought all was well. But then I realized my dad had left, along with my stepsiblings, and most of my dad’s side of the guests were absent. When I called him, he said, “If you disrespect my wife in her home, don’t expect me to be there. Enjoy your day with those you chose.” I was shocked. My stepmom had manipulated my dad, ruining my day. I carried on with fewer guests, without my dad and half-siblings, and the day felt bitter. I feel punished for wanting my wedding my way.

Was I wrong?
Louisa